{"id":319,"date":"2013-10-01T13:06:00","date_gmt":"2013-10-01T18:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cehupnl.com\/2013\/10\/01\/vivir-sin-centro-parte-1\/"},"modified":"2013-10-01T13:06:00","modified_gmt":"2013-10-01T18:06:00","slug":"vivir-sin-centro-parte-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cehupnl.com\/en\/2013\/10\/01\/vivir-sin-centro-parte-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Living without a center (part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-rq0OrPZL78c\/UksO7phyJkI\/AAAAAAAAA80\/LLpMoNJ3Tmo\/s1600\/codependencia.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"170\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-rq0OrPZL78c\/UksO7phyJkI\/AAAAAAAAA80\/LLpMoNJ3Tmo\/s200\/codependencia.jpg\" width=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div align=\"center\" style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: center; text-autospace: none;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">&nbsp;<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 15pt;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">I have felt that many times. I depend on everything to feel good. From my partner, from my job, from money, from the opinion of others...<\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">- Exact. The external is what gives meaning to your life. And realize this: the external is very fragile, it changes all the time and sooner or later it ends. That&#039;s where the anguish, codependency and abandonment of yourself come from.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><i><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">\u2013 Since there is nothing inside me that makes me feel valuable and worthy of love, I look outside for something or someone that makes me feel good about myself.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">\u2013 To live without a center is to abandon yourself all the time, it is the stubborn habit of looking outside for something that fills the inner emptiness you feel. Living without a center has serious consequences.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><i><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">\u2013 And we will analyze them next\u2026<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">- We will do it. So that you can observe yourself and every time you discover yourself in any of these attitudes, you are aware of it.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 15.0pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 6.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-pagination: none; tab-stops: 262.25pt; text-align: justify; text-autospace: none;\"><span lang=\"ES\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times;\">To be continue\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div class='cb-post-url-qr-code'><br><img src='https:\/\/api.qrserver.com\/v1\/create-qr-code\/?size=185x185&ecc=L&qzone=1&data=https%3A%2F%2Fcehupnl.com%2Fen%2F2013%2F10%2F01%2Fvivir-sin-centro-parte-1%2F' alt='Vivir sin centro (parte 1)'\/><\/div><div style=\"margin: 20px 0;\"><div class=\"qrcswholewtapper\" style=\"text-align:left;\"><div class=\"qrcprowrapper\"  id=\"qrcwraa2leds\"><div class=\"qrc_canvass\" id=\"qrc_cuttenpages_2\" style=\"display:inline-block\" data-text=\"https:\/\/cehupnl.com\/en\/2013\/10\/01\/vivir-sin-centro-parte-1\/\"><\/div><div><a download=\"Vivir sin centro (parte 1).png\" class=\"qrcdownloads\" id=\"worign\">\r\n           <button type=\"button\" style=\"min-width:200px;background:#44d813;color:#000;font-weight: 600;border: 1px solid #44d813;border-radius:20px;font-size:12px;padding: 6px 0;\" class=\"uqr_code_btn\">Download QR<\/button>\r\n           <\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;I have felt that many times. 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