The celebrant, who was at that moment, was not by his side, but close enough to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation and slightly raised his posture, as a sign of security, and even puffed out his chest a little, proudly, well, he knew his wife would say yes, since she had never complained during their marriage. <\/span><\/p>\nHowever, to his surprise and the others, the wife responded with a resounding:<\/span><\/div>\n<\/p>\n\u2013 No, it doesn't make me happy.<\/span><\/div>\nThere was an awkward silence in the room as if everyone present had heard the woman's response.<\/div>\n
<\/span><\/p>\nThe husband was petrified. He couldn't believe what his wife was saying, least of all<\/div>\n
for him.<\/div>\n
To everyone's astonishment, she simply placed her elegant black silk scarf enigmatically on her head and continued:<\/div>\n
<\/span>\u2013 No, he doesn't make me happy\u2026 I'm happy! <\/span>The fact that I am happy or not, does not depend on him, but on me. <\/span>I am the only person on whom my happiness depends. <\/span>I determine to be happy in every situation and at every moment of my life, because if my happiness depended on another person, on another thing or circumstance on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\u2013 Everything that exists in this life changes continuously: The human being, the riches, my body, the climate, the pleasures, etc.<\/i><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
And so I could say an endless list.<\/i><\/div>\nThrough all my life, I have learned something: <\/i><\/div>\n\u2013 I decide to be happy and the rest are \u201cexperiences or circumstances\u201d, such as helping, understanding, accepting, listening, consoling, and together with my husband I have lived and practiced it many times.<\/i><\/div>\n\u2013 Happiness will always be based on true forgiveness and love for oneself and others.<\/i><\/div>\n\u2013 It is not my husband's responsibility to make me happy\u2026 He also has his \u201cexperiences or circumstances\u201d, I love him and he loves me, despite his circumstances and mine.<\/i><\/div>\n\u2013 He changes, I change, the environment changes, everything changes; having true love and forgiveness, and observing those changes, (which may or may not be strong, but they exist), we must face them with the love that is in each one of us, if we both love and forgive each other; the changes will only be "experiences or circumstances" that enrich us and that will give us strength, otherwise, we will only have been couples of "step".<\/i><\/div>\n\u2013 For some, getting a divorce is the only solution; <\/i><\/div>\n <\/span>Truly loving is difficult, it is giving love and forgiving unconditionally, living, taking the "experiences or circumstances" as they are, facing them together and being happy by conviction.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>There are people who say:<\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<\/span>\u2013 I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money,<\/span><\/i><\/div>\n\n
* <\/span>because it's very hot, because they insulted me,<\/span><\/i><\/div>\n * <\/span>because someone has stopped loving me,<\/span><\/i> <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n * because someone did not value me!<\/i><\/span><\/div>\n <\/p>\nBut what you don't know is that you can be happy even if you're sick, even if it's hot, whether or not you have money, even if someone has insulted you or someone hasn't loved or valued you.<\/i><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
Being happy is an attitude towards life and each one decides!\u2026<\/span><\/b><\/div>\nBeing happy depends only on you<\/span><\/b><\/div>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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