Your rules and moral codes are external
You follow them only through punishment or the promise of a reward. There is no sense of integrity in you to guide your actions and no confidence that your intelligence and heart are enough to decide what is right and what is not worthy of you.
You can't honor your commitments.
Without your own identity there is no coherence in what you think, say and do. You cannot keep your promises because there is no one there to back up what you say, your words are bad checks. At night you decide something, in the morning you already changed your mind and by the afternoon you no longer remember what you had decided. It is not that you lie, what happens is that your truths are short-term.
You do not have discipline or the possibility to carry out your projects; there is no one in there to follow up on what you set out to do. And finally…