The first thing we are going to do is that you write your objective briefly, remember that it must be stated in a positive way, remember that you must think about what you want, and at the same time also check if it is under your control or if you depend on others people or circumstances to achieve it, maybe you had thought, I want to buy a car, well, that can be a good goal, but...
What kind of car do you want to buy?
…Now how are you going to buy it?
Or how are you going to pay it?
And it is also very important when...
When do you want to do it?
Where will you do the shopping?
Who or who will intervene in this buying and selling event?
What is the color? What is the brand?
Or… What are the qualities of that car that you want?
And very important too...
What do you want it for?
Now check:
How will you look when you achieve?
What are you going to tell yourself when you achieve it?
How will you feel when you achieve it?
…Think as if you had already achieved it, as if you could be inside the car smelling new, as if you could feel the paint on the sheet, the new paint and it refreshes, as if you could also hear it, that silent engine, which smells like new , that it sounds new, that it looks new, and live it as intensely as you can, it is important that you believe that it is possible for you.
I am giving you the example of the car, but you can work in your imagination with what you want to achieve... let your imagination fly, let it dream, there are no limits, the only one can be the sky, remember that thanks to the dreamers we have had the great inventions of humanity.
This is a very important part, that is why you must repeat as intensely as you can, “yes I can do it because I deserve it”, and repeat it many times until you are convinced that it is possible for you.
"Yes, I can achieve it because I deserve it"...here begins the magic of your thoughts. Our mind has the ability to attract what we think!
It's amazing how there are people who achieve goals and then don't know what they want them for, much less what to do with them, so... check it out.
What will be the clues that you are on the right track to achieve your goal?
What will be the evidence that you are moving away from that goal, from that dream?
Now also notice what resources you have.
What are the internal resources, perhaps all those skills that you have, those great capacities, your strength, your power of decision, your will?
What are those internal resources that you have?... write down, flow, give yourself permission, it may sound crazy, but remember that this is an exercise...
Dare yourself!
What are your external resources?
… that is, what material things or people do you have to achieve it?
It can be the people, the car, the money, all those material things that you can have to achieve your goal, that dream... and don't get tired of writing, if you think it's important, pause at each step I'm giving you.
…Now, check if your objective has the right size or you have to divide it, remember that if the objective is very large, smaller objectives will have to be designed, if it is important or necessary, pause so that you reflect and when you are ready, we continue.
Check if your goal is ecological, if you don't affect anyone and if you don't harm... Go ahead!
If for any reason you feel that you are harming someone in particular in any way, stop! Don't do it because remember that life is like a boomerang, what you throw at it comes back to you, better make a contingency plan in case your goal is not reached. is giving, or if it does not turn out as you expected, then you will have to make modifications and change... think:
What other ways can I achieve it?
What other ways can I reach him?
Remember that if your goal is well planned, do not doubt that it will be achievable, if it is motivating it will be achievable and with a great possibility of achieving everything you want and not only achieving it, going beyond your expectations.
All this will drive you to achieve it, you are capable of anything when you believe it, everything can happen when you act congruently towards your goals, I only ask you to put this system into practice, for at least 90 days.
Test it! ¡You do not lose anything and you can win a lot!
Have the humility to follow him. It may work better for you than it has worked for me, I truly wish it with all my heart.
It is also important to take into account the time limit that you propose to achieve your goals, I recommend that when you design them, pay special attention to time because if it is too long, you can get discouraged, or also if it is too short and you do not reach it , it can be very frustrating for you, to such an extent that it immobilizes you for other future occasions that you want to achieve something... then we will have to give you reasonable time with great flexibility.
Check if your goal is ecological, if you don't affect anyone and if you don't harm... Go ahead!
If for any reason you feel that you are harming someone in particular in any way, stop! Don't do it because remember that life is like a boomerang, what you throw at it comes back to you, better make a contingency plan in case your goal is not reached. is giving, or if it does not turn out as you expected, then you will have to make modifications and change... and think
What other ways can I achieve it?
What other ways can I reach him?
Remember that if your goal is well planned, do not doubt that it will be achievable, if it is motivating it will be achievable and with a great possibility of achieving everything you want and not only achieving it, going beyond your expectations.
All this will drive you to achieve it, you are capable of anything when you believe in it, everything can happen when you act congruently towards your goals, I only ask you to put this system into practice, for at least 90 days.
Test it! ¡You do not lose anything and you can win a lot!
Have the humility to follow him. It may work better for you than it has worked for me, I truly wish it with all my heart.
It is also important to take into account the time limit that you propose to achieve your goals, I recommend that when you design them, pay special attention to time because if it is too long, you can get discouraged, or also if it is too short and you do not reach it , it can be very frustrating for you, to such an extent that it immobilizes you for other future occasions that you want to achieve something... then we will have to give you reasonable time with great flexibility.