First part:
"Who" do I have to become to manifest my greatest desire?
embrace the new
Celebrate your dissatisfaction. It has a clear message that you will never get enough of what you don't really love. What you don't love is like salt water: drinking it makes you thirstier. Insisting on what doesn't work always makes the situation worse. So if you feel that something is missing in your life, transmute the discontent into recycled material for the foundation of a new life.
It starts from dissatisfaction.
Those who seek happiness and only find dissatisfaction must first empty their minds of insubstantial reasons. They have not been able to search. To reach a new shore, you must first lose your footing. Navigate unknown waters with your eyes on a great horizon, and not look back.
Whatever your dream, this is an interesting time. Today the possibilities of doing anything have multiplied exponentially.
Dissatisfaction is an emotion, and as such it speaks about you: it indicates that you are focused on something you do not want. It has a purpose, don't ignore it. There is nothing wrong in itself, an emotion is just a signal for your evolution. Don't blame him! An emotion is energy for your next step. It is a vibration that seeks to ascend to a higher level.
Take advantage of your resistance as a lever for change, your dissatisfaction as an engine of transformation. When something isn't working right, the emotions you create are condensed energy to change it.
Soon, your heart will tell you what you want: focus on that. Because what you achieve in life is not about rejecting what you don't want, but about focusing on what you do want. Now, do you focus on creating satisfaction or eliminating dissatisfaction?
Embrace the new, reconcile with the old. What you have created to date is little compared to what you can manifest. And the person you are today is an outline of who will achieve it. But don't fight your past for not being better than it was. Go through it indulgently, you were preparing for what comes next. Keep your heart open to new realities, because if you follow the process, that is what will happen.
Maybe you still don't know what you want, but you do want to leave behind. Don't worry, it won't take long to find out where you're going. Have a notepad handy, you're going to ask yourself a lot of questions to clear it up. Please take notes, you start The Wishes Fulfilled Method.
Recycle discomfort into comfort
Imagine that at the age of five you were bought some ideal shoes. They don't spoil. Time passes, you have changed: your feet have grown. But you stay with them. Imagine now what a painful life to walk with those shoes on. Well often that is exactly what happens. We change, our lives don't…and life hurts us.
When comfort commands more than it serves, the time has come to make decisions. I know that there are those who prefer to continue with "bad acquaintance than good to know." They are the same people who are content to complain when things go wrong.
But: if you are one of those who think that there has to be another way, and that the time to find out is now, you have just turned a page in the script of your life.
I know it was your comfort zone there is uncertainty. But it's worth it: everything you want in life is outside your comfort zone (and within the opportunity zone). If you want to develop as a person and grow above your limitations, you should know that this will happen when you expand your comfort zone. That is, transform what you don't want into what you want.
Welcome to one of the most creative phases of your life.
If a change is uncomfortable, remember that before the change you were also uncomfortable, maybe even more so. And if you do nothing, wait and see how things will turn out over time. Making some changes may take effort, but not making them can be very painful. Your job is you.
The comfortable, in the long run, tends to be very uncomfortable. In its popular version: "cheap is expensive".
Human beings unfortunately spend more time in comfort zone that in the opportunity zone. It is so sad and at the same time so true… In the world dissatisfaction abounds for wanting to play it safe. It is not theory, it is reality.
William Bridges, in Managing the transitions It helps us understand people's response to change. For him, "change"Y "transition" They are different aspects. The first is external, the second internal. And if an inner transformation is not worked out first, the outer change will not occur. For the world to change before humanity has to change. For your life to change, you must first change. Is it so hard to accept it? In his book the author states: “Unless a transition occurs, change will not work”. Bridges' transition model is very helpful in understanding the phases to a new beginning.
The three stages are:
1.     An end (for something to start, something must first end).
2.     A neutral phase (to lead confusion to clarification).
3.     A new beginning (to create a new consciousness).
You will have noticed that the first and third are "external changes" and that the second is the "internal transition". The latter is the most important, and its purpose is to gather energy to work out personal transformation.

In short: changes in your world are a consequence of changes in you. Work within yourself to modify your outer world.