Nine words with a new meaning
Language not only describes reality, today we know that it creates it. "When people talk to each other, the world is built."
I also believe it. And I know that the word has the gift of creating, I learned it when I studied Neurolinguistic Programming.
The first thing you should pay attention to is your internal dialogue. Words count and a lot, they play for or against.
So, to change your reality, change your internal dialogue, that is, the way you talk to yourself.
Remember that you are the person with whom you are going to “talk” the most throughout your life! identifies negative words and expressions, the “loser vocabulary”. You cannot afford to maintain negative internal dialogues (it is very expensive). Simply press the “pause” button and stop it.
Change your vocabulary and it will change your life.
Words are tools.
Make declarations out loud, impregnate every cell of your body with its vibration. Turn your positive affirmations into decrees, and your decrees into “fulfilled self-prophecies”.
Surely, you already know that in the sacred books we read: "The word became flesh". What a metaphorical way of expressing that words come true!
Successful people use "winning words." Are you one of those people? I have written this book, among other things, to draw the attention of those who unknowingly use the power of their own vocabulary to harm themselves.
Your words always work, for or against.
I'll try to explain:
Words are combinations of sounds, and each sound has a vibration associated with it. In this way, when you use a positive vocabulary, your vibrational state is raised. And vice versa. Letters are letters; and words, words. However, each word has been spoken countless times by us and others before now; consequently, they carry a specific emotional charge attached to them. And the simple fact of pronouncing them activates their vibration just as it happens with a mantra or word of power. Do not waste time speculating because it is so, accept it now and question it in the very hypothetical case that it fails you.
Now think, what cheat words are you going to throw away to get your power back?
One of the tasks that I usually propose to my clients of coaching It consists of revising the most frequent vocabulary and expressions. Immediately they see how certain low-frequency words are repeated with incredible regularity.
Make two lists: “winning words” and “losing words”. You will know which category each word belongs to by the kind of energy it generates in you. Now, which list is the longest? Do you understand its effect over time?
I have a magic word; “Abracadabra”, does it sound familiar to you? Sure, wizards use it. What is not so well known is its origin (Aramaic) or its meaning “While I speak I am creating” It is what we all do!
I have selected nine words around which my current vocabulary gravitates. They are my magic words. Its vibration inspires my actions and focuses me on my true desires. They are my “words of worship”. Your understanding has made a big difference to me. However, I confess that in my private dictionary, these words now have a very different meaning from what I learned at the time.
Desire it was the origin of all misfortunes (he believed that dreams are “pure fantasy”). But there is a big difference between wishing (willingness to do necessary to achieve a goal) and covet (anxiety to do anyhome to achieve a goal). When greed takes control of a desire, it kills it; or worse still: “kills” those who covet. Desire. If it's in your heart, there will be a reason.
Discipline it was synonymous with obedience and imposition. I know that it actually means “to be a disciple of a powerful idea”, of a creative thought. Discipline yourself. Be a disciple of your mission or what is the same: give yourself to a purpose so that it transforms you and your life.
Acceptance It meant giving in or giving up. For me, today means to stop resisting. It is abandoning the position of denying what it is and open up to It could be. Inner surrender implies trust in the intelligence of the universe. You accept. You will not be able to free yourself without first accepting. Nothing transforms a situation as much as its acceptance to move on to the next.
Responsibility It was synonymous with obligation. Now it means; “ability to give an answer”. For me it consists of accepting the challenge of creating the future at every moment. take responsibility. Train yourself to respond from the self instead of reacting from the ego.
Confidence it meant blind faith—lacking reason and logic—and passive waiting. Today means certainty with total detachment from the moment they occur. Actually, it implies a very active inner attitude. trust. Give your best at all times —and forget about the result—, and it will surely come. Cultivate a selfless attitude for your own interest.
Commitment it was obligation. Now it represents the common space between who I am and what I express; so there is no difference. For me, it is the attitude that allows my destiny to reach me. A compromise is an "internal agreement" without reservations. commit. There is no difference between who you are and what you do. Being committed or involved is very different. If you only get involved, when things get complicated, you will leave.
Passion it meant momentum and outburst. Today, it represents loving causes and enthusiastically enjoying the process that leads to effects. The passion detached is the kind of drive that leads to the top. Get passionate. Passion is the fuel that ensures that work does not tire you and that obstacles do not stop you.
Imagination it was unreal. Today the imagination is the bridge that leads me from my current reality to my desired reality. Imagine. Exercise visualization and the formulation of powerful questions that excite and fertilize your imagination.
To flow it meant letting go and relinquishing control. Now it reminds me that there are moments in which it is necessary to do and in others it is enough to be. It all boils down to a dance between internal action and external action. Flowing. Act according to the rhythm of the moment. Do like the bamboo, which with its non-opposition resists the force of the wind. The flexible cannot be broken.
To recap:
1. Desire before greed.
2. Discipline in the face of laziness
3. Acceptance in the face of resistance.
4. Responsibility before the reaction.
5. Confidence in the face of impatience.
6. Commitment before excuses.
7. Passion in the face of apathy.
8. Imagination before repetition.
9. To flow in the face of resistance.
Do not abandon your purpose and he will not abandon you
Many people forget to dream. It is a sad truth. They deny themselves what they crave most. They desist from their destiny after calling it "impossible". They give up "inventing" a desired future and accept a foreseeable future.
If this is your case, this book will show you that we have not come to the planet to survive, but to make the invisible visible. Or as the famous Ayurvedic endocrinologist Deepak Chopra puts it: "To create the world at all times."
This book is dedicated to creating extraordinary lives.
But let's go to the numbers.
According to statistics, 80% of entrepreneurs quit after the first try. And the 100% almost gave up after the second try... That's not exactly an example of perseverance and determination to say the least. Two tries, one… or none. And that is all.
You must have heard that early dropouts are the biggest cause of failure. In my experience I have learned that to go through the right door you have to knock on many wrong doors first. It's fair? It is unfair? This is life! I will give you an example: when I founded the CEHUPNL with the purpose of teaching Neurolinguistic Programming as a tool for human and business development. I knocked on hundreds of wrong doors for 4 years. It was hard but I was willing to accept hundreds of refusals if necessary. What he was not willing to do was give up despite everything.
Those who leave prematurely, one day wonder afflicted in what their life has gone. Finally, they discover that the worst thing in their lives is what they didn't try. Sad. And so they conclude that life is too short to live without passion. Is late? It never is. But answer this question for yourself after pondering the following quote from Zig Ziglar, motivator of motivators: “No matter how old you are, you are younger than you will ever be.”
Tomas Alva Edison, the greatest inventor of all time, is an example of what can be achieved with determination. To date no one has surpassed him in number of patents. Among other inventions, he developed the electric battery after some fifty thousand trials. Many other inventions of his were perfected after a similar number of tests, but this was never a cause for discouragement for him. What others call failure, he called it an “undesired result”.
Opportunities to quit abound, excuses too: I don't have time, it's not the time, it's hard, I can't, etc. They are signs of “weakness of mind”. If any of those trap thoughts or mental shackles paralyze you, have the remedy at hand: create the vision of achievement (especially in the worst moments).
If you allow me the observation, I will tell you that the more dropouts you notice around you, the closer you will be to the top.
It is a well documented syndrome. Let me give you an example of "The syndrome of the other shore" or "The syndrome of the top". People who, a few meters from the other shore, or from the summit, enveloped in fog or a cloud, lost sight of their objective. And then without the visual stimulus, they topple over and drop out…within a few meters of their target!
Antidote: When you're tempted to quit, ask yourself if you might not be quitting too soon. Give yourself another day, an additional kilometer, a new attempt, an extra effort.
If a dream lives in your heart, it is because you are capable of making it come true. It was put in your heart for a reason. It was granted to you; and by accepting it, granted in advance. What you seek seeks you. What you love loves you. Finding it will deeply transform you and elevate your life to a level never before known.