synchronicity
Synchronicities are "coincidences with meaning." Many people describe them as divine providence, luck, destiny, fortune... Some call it "language of God", others "state of flow", others "causalities". What we call it doesn't matter. Be that as it may, why not take advantage of the help they provide?
Joseph Jaworski, in his book synchronicity, coined the term “unfolding of the creative order”. I have not found words that better define what happens when we attract people and situations without any effort being necessary. And as he says; "This is not a magical experience, but a very earthly one."
The more you flow, the more synchronicities occur that set in motion the cosmic machinery that conspires so that you see your wishes fulfilled. Now, when I look back, I fully realize that my greatest strokes of luck” have occurred when I was in a “state of flow”, completely abandoned and entrusted to a superior intelligence and order. Create it in your mind and then let it go. You have to drop it to attract it:
The one you need most will be there when you need it.
When I left my teaching job, I entered a coherence state of mind that unfolded the implicate order of my own desire: a new lifestyle. Everything began to be simpler, faster and unpredictable. My commitment unleashed a succession of small miracles of a synchronous nature. I did everything and at the same time did nothing. The only thing I know is that chaos was followed by order, and my decisions, made from consistency and commitment, had a lot to do with the unfolding of my new life.
And all that happened not because I was chosen, but because I there wasselected.
Listen to the language of coincidences. On the surface it may seem that your intuitions have nothing to do with the goal you want to achieve. For example, perhaps you intend to improve the quality of your relationship, and in your efforts, and shortly after, you are left without a partner. At first glance, it seems like a contradiction. But if you wait long enough, you will discover that your next relationship meets your expectations of what a blessed relationship should be. The mind has logic; but the spirit, wisdom.
Those who have managed to make their dreams come true explain how they started and often express themselves in terms such as:
“Something unexpected happened after I took action.”
“I acted even without knowing all the answers.”
“My daring turned out to be very creative.”
"I went from worrying to 'taking care' and everything was resolved."
They took a leap of faith first, and found the right path later. They learned to trust their inner guidance no matter what the speech of their frightened mind was. His dream implied a great personal transformation and his spirit, through the language of coincidences, designed the signals to make a quantum leap.
The day always comes when you learn to trust.
Without going any further, this book has been the subject of several synchronistic events that will provide me with the orientation and experiences that this project needed. I put everything on my part and accepted all the help that has made it possible. I didn't even feel like I “had to write”, rather I felt like I would end up doing it anyway even with all the drawbacks. So I gave up because on some level I knew doing so would lead to me dissolving an old way of being.
This book has come into your life at the right time. It is part of a cluster of synchronicities. You may not know it now, but you will know it without a doubt. Things happen in a more orderly way than we suppose. This book is no exception.
Understanding or action?
If this book intended to understand concepts that are not applicable to reality, it would not be worth reading. But this is not a book for understanding but to stimulate you to act in the direction of your dreams.
We have plenty of information to achieve a full life, and yet what we need is to transmute it into facts.
"Make the word flesh." I often see how some people spend more time verifying information than experiencing it. In other words, they are content to confirm intellectually what has not yet been demonstrated experientially.
They dream of a different life but they don't believe their dream.
I have been consulted by some people who fully understand their difficulties and want to overcome them but do not seem willing to let go of the thought patterns that "create" their problems.
Let's make it clear and as soon as possible: to overcome a difficulty understanding is not enough, but action.
We can all understand that a relationship or a habit does not favor us at all and yet we are still hooked. Understanding looks for the “why”. Understanding is almost never worth anything because "what needs to be understood" is not worth it.
Many problems are not solved because they are sought to be solved in the mental or behavioral sphere but not in consciousness.
Paradoxically, preparation is another impediment to action. are you training ad infinitum for which you never feel sufficiently prepared? Do you delay the decision to start until you feel 100% ready? If the answers are yes, you are a very prudent person. But prudence in excess is a great imprudence. The following is from Mark Twain: "You will always find excuses but none is a reason." I have learned that wishes are fulfilled by taking action, not looking for excuses.
If we used only half of what we already know, our life would be twice as good as it is.
I just gave you a great idea to double your satisfaction.
An example of one of my students who told us that one day he discovered a book in his library that he had not read when he bought it ten years ago. Turns out it was explaining a woman's experience with her migraines and how she solved them.. And he told us: I've had this problem all my life, and —without knowing it— the solution in the form of a book was in my house without me paying any attention to it! One day I devoured it, applied it and everything changed. Why didn't I read that book before? How many headaches would that have saved me?
Right now you're so close to your answers that you can't see them because they don't look like the solution you're looking for…until you experiment.