When are you going to show your love to your loved ones?
· When you have a few minutes left to live?
· When do they have a minute left to live?
The love you don't show today will be lost forever.
Remember that life is so short and so fragile that we don't have time to waste on grudges and absurd discussions. Today is the day to forgive the offenses of the past and to settle the old quarrels. Give yourself to those you love without hoping to change them, accept them as they are and respect the most valuable gift they have received: Their Freedom.
Enjoy your relationships without doing dramas. If you want everyone to do what you want or to be as you have decided, if you want to control those around you, you will fill your life with conflict. Allow others to make their own decisions as you have to make yours, always trying to achieve what is best for everyone. So you can fill your life with harmony. And finally.
What are you waiting for to start enjoying your life?
· May all your problems be fixed?
· May all your traumas be removed?
· That someone finally recognizes your worth?
· What does love come into your life?
· What returns the one who left?
· Does everyone turn out the way you want?
· What ends the economic crisis?
· What a miracle happen to you?
· That by magic everything is beautiful and perfect?
Wake up now! This is life!
Life is not what happens when all your plans are fulfilled, nor what will happen when you have what you want so much. Life is what is happening right now. Your life right now is reading this paragraph, wherever you are doing it and with the circumstances that surround you now. At this time your heart carries blood to all the cells in your body and your lungs carry oxygen to where it is needed. At this moment something that we cannot understand keeps you alive and allows you to see, think, express yourself, move, laugh, even cry if you want! Don't get used to life, don't get used to waking up every day and being bored, or grumpy, or worried. Open your eyes and be thankful for all the blessings you can see, be thankful for your ability to hear the birds sing, your favorite music, the laughter of your children. Put your hands on your chest and feel your heart pounding telling you: "You are alive, you are alive, you are alive."
I know that life is not perfect, that it is full of difficult situations. Maybe that's how it's supposed to be. Perhaps that is why you have been given all the tools you need to face it: a great strength that allows you to bear losses, the freedom to choose how to react to what happens, the love and support of your loved ones. I also know that you are not perfect, nobody is. And yet millions of circumstances have come together for you to exist. You were formed from a wonderful design and you share with all humanity its virtues and defects. This is how it is written in your genes, in the genes of all human beings that have existed and in all that will exist.
Your passions, your fears, your wounds, your weaknesses, your secrets and your aggression, you share them with all your brothers. Welcome to the human race! Those supposed defects are part of your freedom, part of your humanity.